One of the keys to acting more like a gentleman is to dress more like one as well. I am not suggesting that a person needs to look like they're on the cover of GQ each day, but paying close attention to the small things can take you from unkempt to dapper in a few minutes.
As we are at the tail end of the holiday season, which is ripe for opportunities to dress up for parties, family gatherings or church, I noticed one thing in particular that men frequently struggle with when it comes to dressing up. It is a violation that is rather minute, but one that can be quite glaring when seen in public. The most common mistake that I saw this holiday season and see on a daily basis for a man is failing to match the color of his belt with his shoes.
Now, I am sure that you are thinking that I am a crazy person who places too much stock in the appearance of a person. And you wouldn't be completely incorrect. But I can assure you that this is one simple fashion change that is easily fixed and won't require you to go out and change up an entire wardrobe.
It is pretty simple - if you are wearing brown shoes, wear a brown belt and not a black one. If you are wearing black shoes, wear a black belt. As those are the standard dress shoe choices for men, you're pretty safe just sticking with that simple rule. If you are venturing into blues, grays or greens, then do your best to simply complement the shoes and belt. They don't need to be a direct match.
Nothing is worse than seeing a man in a nice suit and rocking offsetting shoe and belt colors. Continuity in an outfit is critical so avoid this whenever possible. Remember: being a gentleman is not just in your actions, but how you present yourself to the public as well. So next time you walk out of the house, always remember to check your leathers.
TTBG #5: Thankful All Through The Year
TTBG #4: Hats Are For Outside, Not The Restaurant
TTBG #3 - Eat to the Pace of Your Company